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Fun questions to ask your partner

Fun questions to ask your partner

The ones that start with a laugh and end somewhere you did not expect.

Not every good conversation has to be heavy. Sometimes the fastest way back to each other is a stupid question and a real laugh.

These are the playful ones, with the occasional card that starts silly and lands somewhere that actually matters.

Fun / Hypotheticals

If you had to give a TED talk tomorrow, what would your topic be?

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Funny

  1. 1What is the most embarrassing thing you have ever done for love?
  2. 2What is the pettiest hill you will die on?
  3. 3What is a weirdly specific thing that instantly annoys you?
  4. 4What is the dumbest way you have ever hurt yourself?
  5. 5What is your most useless talent?
  6. 6What trend do you secretly hope comes back?
  7. 7What is a sound you make without realizing it?
  8. 8Who is to blame for your worst habit?
  9. 9What is the funniest lie you ever got away with as a kid?
  10. 10When did you last laugh so hard you could not breathe?
  11. 11What is a word you can never say with a straight face?
  12. 12What is your most embarrassing autocorrect fail?
  13. 13What terrible joke do you refuse to stop telling?
  14. 14What is the most competitive you get over a silly game?
  15. 15What is your signature dance move?
  16. 16What is the weirdest thing you have ever searched online at 2am?
  17. 17What is your go-to excuse for skipping the gym?
  18. 18What is the most chaotic text you have ever sent by accident?
  19. 19What is the silliest nickname anyone has ever given you?
  20. 20What sound effect would play every time you walk into a room?

Would you rather

  1. 21Would you rather never whisper again or never shout again?
  2. 22Would you rather always be ten minutes late or twenty minutes early?
  3. 23Would you rather read minds or become invisible?
  4. 24Would you rather give up cheese or give up chocolate forever?
  5. 25Would you rather be able to fly or breathe underwater?
  6. 26Would you rather lose your phone for a week or your wallet for a day?
  7. 27Would you rather sing everything you say or dance everywhere you go?
  8. 28Would you rather always be too hot or always be too cold?
  9. 29Would you rather give up wifi for a month or coffee for a month?
  10. 30Would you rather be able to teleport anywhere or freeze time whenever you want?
  11. 31Would you rather win an argument you were wrong about or lose one you were right about?
  12. 32Would you rather be the funniest person in the room or the smartest?
  13. 33Would you rather give up your favorite show or your favorite snack forever?
  14. 34Would you rather have a rewind button for life or a pause button?
  15. 35Would you rather talk to animals or speak every human language?
  16. 36Would you rather always know when someone is lying or always get away with your own lies?
  17. 37Would you rather be stuck in traffic forever or stuck in a slow line forever?
  18. 38Would you rather never listen to music again or never watch a movie again?

Hypotheticals

  1. 39If you could have dinner with anyone alive, who would it be?
  2. 40If we won the lottery tomorrow, what would you buy first?
  3. 41If you had to teach a class on anything, what would it be?
  4. 42If our life was a TV show, what would it be called?
  5. 43If you could instantly master one skill, which one?
  6. 44If you could swap lives with anyone for a day, who would you pick?
  7. 45If you could bring back one fashion trend, what would it be?
  8. 46If you could relive any year of your life, which one would you choose?
  9. 47If you could be any fictional character for a week, who would you choose?
  10. 48If you had a talking pet, what would it say about you?
  11. 49If you woke up as a celebrity tomorrow, who would you want to be?
  12. 50If you had to give a TED talk tomorrow, what would your topic be?
  13. 51If you could time travel but only once, would you go to the past or the future?
  14. 52If aliens landed tomorrow, what is the first question you would ask them?
  15. 53If you could raid anyone's closet, whose would it be?
  16. 54If you were a superhero, what would your terrible superpower be?
  17. 55If you could redecorate one room in our home, which would it be?
  18. 56If your life had a warning label, what would it say?

Food and travel

  1. 57What meal could you honestly eat every day forever?
  2. 58Where in the world do you most want to take me?
  3. 59What is your ultimate comfort food, no judgment?
  4. 60Beach trip or mountain trip, and why?
  5. 61What is the weirdest food combination you actually love?
  6. 62What food do you refuse to share, even with me?
  7. 63What is a food you loved as a kid but cannot stand now?
  8. 64What is your order at our favorite restaurant, without even looking at the menu?
  9. 65What food would you never let me order for you?
  10. 66What is the most overrated food everyone else seems to love?
  11. 67What is your dream trip that we have not taken yet?
  12. 68What is the most overpacked you have ever been for a trip?
  13. 69What is one place you would move to tomorrow if you could?
  14. 70What is the best souvenir you have ever brought back from a trip?
  15. 71Window seat or aisle seat, and why does it matter so much to you?
  16. 72What is the most spontaneous trip you have ever taken?

Silly, then real

  1. 73What was your most rebellious phase?
  2. 74What is a small thing that always makes your whole day better?
  3. 75What did you believe as a kid that you are almost sad is not true?
  4. 76Who is your favorite person to be around besides me?
  5. 77What is something you have changed your mind about lately?
  6. 78What is a silly rule you had as a kid that you still secretly follow?
  7. 79What ridiculous thing do you still get excited about like a kid?
  8. 80What show shaped your sense of humor more than anything else?
  9. 81What did you think love looked like before you actually fell in it?
  10. 82What is the silliest thing that has ever made you cry?
  11. 83What were you once embarrassed about that you are now proud of?
  12. 84What silly ritual do you have that actually means a lot to you?
  13. 85What is a small superstition you still cannot shake?
  14. 86What did you think adults did all day before you became one?
  15. 87What is the silliest reason you have ever fallen for someone?
  16. 88What childhood fear did you secretly never grow out of?
  17. 89What is a family joke that only makes sense to the people in it?
  18. 90What used to seem cool to you that makes you cringe now?
  19. 91What small thing from your childhood do you want to pass on one day?
  20. 92What silly thing are you weirdly sentimental about?

Guilty pleasures

  1. 93What snack do you always deny buying yourself?
  2. 94What is a reality show you will not admit to loving?
  3. 95What song do you secretly know every single word to?
  4. 96What is something you buy way more often than you should?
  5. 97What app do you spend more time on than you would like to admit?
  6. 98What is a celebrity crush you have never fully let go of?
  7. 99What is your comfort movie that you have seen an embarrassing number of times?
  8. 100What hobby would you be embarrassed to explain to a stranger?
  9. 101What food would you never order in front of anyone else?
  10. 102What is the guiltiest purchase sitting in your cart right now?

Just for laughs

  1. 103What is the most ridiculous thing you would do for a free meal?
  2. 104What fake accent do you secretly think you are good at?
  3. 105What would your entrance music be if you were a wrestler?
  4. 106What animal sound do you do the best impression of?
  5. 107What is the most dramatic exit you have ever made from a room?
  6. 108What is your villain origin story if you had one?
  7. 109What would you name a boat if you ever owned one?
  8. 110What is a party trick you wish you actually had?

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